The wild geese do not intend to cast their reflection; the water has no mind to receive their image - Chuang Tzu Let the waves of the universe rise and fall as they will. You have nothing to gain or lose. You are the ocean. ~ Ashtavakara Gita See also this key text
I once read all the Alan Watts I could get my hands on, including the marvellous 'Book On The Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are'. I never heard him speak though, and so this is very special. See 'A Journey Towards to Light'